How to Serve Singles in Your Church Community

Table for One Ministries • September 24, 2024

Singles are a vital part of the church community, yet they often feel overlooked or marginalized. In her article, “ How to Serve the Singles ,” Marshall Segal highlights the importance of intentionally serving and encouraging single adults within the church. Her insights remind us that singles, whether temporarily or long-term, play a crucial role in the body of Christ.

Segal emphasizes that the church should not see singleness as a transitional phase to be endured, but as a unique season of opportunity. One of the key ways the church can support singles is by fostering deep and meaningful community. Instead of focusing solely on marriage and family-centric events, churches can create spaces where singles can connect with others who share their faith, regardless of their life stage.

She also notes that singles should be empowered to serve the church with their unique gifts. Too often, single adults feel sidelined, but they have invaluable contributions to offer. Segal encourages churches to actively involve singles in leadership, discipleship, and ministry opportunities, allowing them to flourish in their God-given talents.

How to Serve ‘The Singles’

Additionally, Segal addresses the importance of contentment in Christ , reminding singles that they are complete in Him. As church leaders, we must reinforce the truth that singleness is not a deficiency but a God-ordained season with its own blessings and opportunities for spiritual growth.

Another vital aspect Segal points out is the need for churches to actively pray for and with singles. Praying for their spiritual, emotional, and relational needs shows care and support. It also invites God’s guidance into their lives, helping them navigate singleness with grace and wisdom, while seeking His will for their future.

Segal’s article challenges the church to better serve singles by creating inclusive spaces for fellowship, encouraging their gifts, and reinforcing their identity in Christ. By doing so, the church can more fully reflect the diverse and complete body of Christ.

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